Tuesday, November 4, 2014

MY POEM COLLECTION

WHEN LOVE DIES,,,,,,,,,,,

When love dies,
it ceases to exist.
And the flame that used to be,
Ceases to persist

It feels like a wound that won't stop bleeding,
Like it's your last breath you're about to take,
And it feels like your soul's watching,
And all you can do is pray you wake.

When love dies,
It's like everything slows down to a stop
The tears that came rolling down your cheeks
Are taking ages to drop

To the cold tiled floor
I fell onto my knees,
It felt as if the light followed her shadow,
As she slammed closed the door...

Love died,
I know this because my soul died too.
And it was hurting as much
as all the pain I put her through.

When love died
I ceased to exist
the only thing that kept us together...
Ceased to persist.

You

I still remember the first day we met
We were too shy to say much at all
It's funny to think back to that time
Because now we're having a ball!

They say that true friendship is rare
An adage that I believe to be true
Genuine friendship is something that I cherish
I am so lucky to have met you.

Our bond is extremely special
It is unique in its own way
We have something irreplaceable
I love you more and more each day.

We've been through so much together
In so little time we've shared
I will never forget all the moments
that you've shown me how much you cared.

Friends are forever
Especially the bond that you and I possess
I love your fun-filled personality
Somehow you never fail to impress.

The world could use more people like you
it would certainly be a better place
I love everything about you
You are someone I could never replace.

You are always there for me
When my spirits need a little lift
I cannot thank you enough for that
You are truly an extraordinary gift.

You are everything to me and more
I could never express that enough
Life is such a treacherous journey, and
Without you it would be even more tough.

Our story will continue to grow
With each passing day
Because I trust that with you by my side
Everything will always be Okay.

You are so dear to me
You know I will love you until the end
I will always be there for you, and
You will always (and forever) be my best friend.

Alone

He once again has forgotten me.
Many unreasonably long hours pass,
And I am still alone,
Not one word heard.

Worn out and blue I feel.
Haven't done much but still exhausted.
My thoughts belonging to him
Have distracted me throughout the day.

But like always,
Great times don't seem to last.
One day love, hugs, and kiss.
Promises to always be there.

The next abandoned.
Tight burning words in my throat,
Waiting, a lot more patiently,
to be burst out.

I HATE YOU!
It is what I want to scream.
I MISS YOU!
Is what my heart yells.

Such pain is
My punishment
For falling into loves wings.
I am such a fool.

Such torture is
My prize
For falling into his arms.
I am only blind.

I AM SORRY

Every time I see the pain in your eyes
A little part of my heart dies
No matter how hard and how often you try
all I seem to do is make you cry.

You risk so much and take such chance
To share your heart and your romance
You share your hopes and dreams and fears
And let me in to all that's dear

All I seem to do is be mean and cold
To fail to cherish, fail to hold
I seem to fail to put you first
You act your best, I am my worst

My mouth contradicts my heart
My actions and thoughts so far apart
I love you with every part of me
Yet act so cruel and thoughtlessly

I dream of you all night and day
And hang on every word you say
Yet all you see is selfishness and arrogance
Casual disdain and ignorance

Assumption and judgment and every thing's a test
No matter what you do you're always second best
No matter how hard you try it's never enough
I never hear your protestations of love

I say I love you and cherish all of our dreams
Yet act as if I can't hear your screams
Of need and want and stability and trust
My plans never materialize, my promises rust

I scream at myself at how stupid I am
For risking your love, for risking your hand
And I pray every day that you never see
That I need you more than you need me

I bare my heart and my soul to you
To say sorry for what I did and for what I do
I have no excuses and hide no more
All I can offer is my love for evermore.

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DON'T BLAME OTHERS FOR YOUR OWN FAILURE

We live in a world where we make our own choices that decide our future but it doesn't not always turn out the way we anticipate it. Did we do something wrong or was it someone else who prevented that dream or goal of being achieved? The fact remains we have two choices to choose from when deciding who is to blame for something not going right, ourselves or someone else. Let's explore each of those choices.

Let's begin with blaming others. Some people find a feeling of closure when someone is given the blame for anything that goes wrong. It seems like the simple choice to make and we do not have to feel bad about ourselves either. We may rely on others to help us through difficult times but their advice can cause more harm than good. It's only fitting that the person who gave the bad advice should be held responsible. You can feel better about yourself seeing as you were not the cause of the misfortune so you are ready to move on.

Once we place the blame on someone else do we care how that person feels? Should that person feel bad for what they did even though they did it in good faith? But why would someone give us advice that only makes a situation worse? We don't like to point the finger at anyone but why take the blame for something you did based not the advice of others? A true friend would never put you in a bad situation but when they do it creates animosity towards the friendship and doubt as to whether the friendship is real or not. It just doesn't seem right.

It seems like I am justifying the fact that placing the blame on someone is OK. In fact, I am trying to prove a point that too often we look for someone else to blame rather than ourselves. Don't get me wrong in some instances (i.e. cheating, lying, backstabbing, etc) there are legitimate reasons to place the blame on someone but those are deliberate methods that have intent. To place the blame on someone else because we are too selfish or arrogant to hold ourselves accountable seems to be the preferred method by many.

As humans we tend to fear the word failure so to avoid succumbing to the negative aspects of it we blame someone else. It's the easy way out and those who have the ability to blame someone else and feel good about it are likely to be somewhat sociopath. That seems a bit harsh but it has some truth to it. People do not like to blame themselves or hold themselves accountable in some situations. Do we know why people do this?

I can't speak for everyone else but we need to be held more accountable for our actions. People who were born in the 1980's were taught what respect is and if you chose to be disrespectful you were likely to find yourself getting slapped, spanked, grounded or even your mouth washed out with soap. It was unheard of where a parent sat back and let their child blame others for their actions. Each child was held accountable and swiftly punished. Now don't get me started on today's generation because that is another whole theory on its own.

I might sound repetitive but the fact remains we have the ability to make our own decisions. We can choose what advice to take and which not to. No one is holding a gun to our heads and telling us that is how we will do it. If we choose to take some one's advice it's because we chose to not because we had to. We must hold ourselves accountable for our own actions rather than placing the blame on someone else. When we blame others we are running from our own fears or problems. Guess what? You have only yourself to blame because you chose to do it that way, you made your own decision, you chose not to change, and in the end it's all on you.

STOP playing the blame game because unless you are a marionette and everyone around you is pulling your strings and doing the talking for you, the choices you make are your decisions not theirs. That mentality is a tough one to swallow for some and if they choose not to make changes and hold themselves accountable then they will find themselves repeating problem after problem. They may seek sympathy after and we will give it to them but we are only enabling them. They need to be held accountable and they need to recognize they have only themselves to blame. It's a hard lesson to learn but it's the only way they will learn.

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Friends hope you guys have started to prepare for your exam.......
If you are yet to start,,,,, do is do because its neither too early nor too late.......

Good Luck for your exam......... study hard but hardly...................